On Being Your Own Best Publisher

A resource list for those curious about self-sovereign publishing

All writers are real writers.

If you read only one thing, please read my 2022 manifesto On Being a Real Writer.

Realness is a gift you give yourself.
On Being a Real Writer
I suppose I spent so long worrying about being a real man, or even a real trans man, that I haven’t found much time to worry about being a real writer. I am a man who doesn’t have a cock. In fact, I am a man who has

A book is a spell.

I wrote this while I was imagining and bringing into being my first book.

Self-publishing this way makes it difficult to get much distribution, it’s not the best option if you want to make money or even get your work into the most hands. But you do get to make every single decision about how your reader encounters your work. Not just title. Not just cover. Font. Spacing. Margins. Paper texture and thickness. Title pages. Everything. You get to make a tangible object that has the ability to set off a transformative experience. In other words, you are casting a spell.
A Book Is A Spell
How can I learn to create a tangible object that will weave together an experience for someone else at a place and time I may never see?

Know what you, and your work, truly desire.

A reflection essay on self-publishing my first book (which has quite a bit about shipping logistical challenges, which I have since entirely forgotten about, in part because I've found better infrastructure since then. Please reach out if you're looking to self-publish and have infrastructure questions!)

Self-publishing offered me exactly what I wanted for this particular body of work. I wanted to put it out in the world quickly and intimately, and with great attention to offering a spacious and unhurried reading experience through the design of the book.
What I Learned From Self-Publishing My Essay Collection
On knowing what you—and your work—truly desire

Sharing your work is part of your creative process.

In fact, it's creative fuel - and we can all look at weirder, wilder, and more joyful ways of sharing than the usual blogs, newsletters, litmags, and books! This is a big part of the work I am building over at Better Metaphors Studio.

Knowing What You Really Want - Why I Left Substack
In response to a prompt in The Wayward Writer, I drew this: You can take up more space than you think. When people don’t know what you’re really about, that can be its own form of protection. I might say, “When you know what you’re really about, that can be
My Sharing Story
A little zine I made about my previous experiences sharing my work on Substack, for Kening Zhu’s Sharing Space Camp class.
Received and Subtly Answered: Online Sharing as Liturgy
Another mini-zine inspired by Kening Zhu’s Sharing Space Camp class!
Invoking the Creative Self
Creative work is always a dance between form and void.
Creative Process Manifesto
We deserve to put work out there that is still in progress. This is still in progress. We deserve systems for sharing and archiving our work that are weirder and wilder than a chronological list of every newsletter we’ve ever sent. We deserve rest. We deserve to re-examine our beliefs

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